Archive for March 2008

Monday, March 31st, 2008

The Paperless Office? What a Joke!

No matter how technologically savvy we become, we can’t seem to eliminate paper. In fact, studies estimate that we generate up to ten times more paper than we did before the advent of the computer! How much of that paper is sitting in stacks on multiple surfaces all over your home and office?  To tame those mountains of paper, try throwing these ideas at them.

1. Consistently purge your files without fear. Before you embark on an overhaul of your filing systems, purge all the old junk first. Why spend time dealing with paper you’re just going to toss anyway?

2. Create and maintain a filing system that allows you to find papers easily. If you can’t find a particular piece of paperwork when you need it, it might as well not exist. Pick a logical filing scheme and follow it religiously.

3. Follow a daily processing system for staying on top of mail and paperwork. Keep track of your incoming mail and other paperwork every day, and use the 6-D system to deal with it: discard, do, delegate, date, drawer, or deter.

4. Handle bills in a timely fashion and keep up with bookkeeping. Limit the number of credit cards and checking accounts you have, and learn to file everything effectively so you know when bills are due. Online payments can help.

5. Know where you put every piece of paper you receive. Keep different types of paperwork in separate files, and think before you put something into a file: is it really worth my time and effort? For example, most store coupons aren’t.

6. Handle phone calls and voice mail productively. Avoid phone tag, which does little but add to your daily paper deluge. Answering the phone when it rings can be much more effective. Also, start a phone log to keep track of who you’ve called and who’s called you.

7. Use technology to reduce paper and complete tasks quickly. Utilize computers and related devices to automate what would ordinarily be paper-based tasks: e.g., holiday lists, contact management, word processing, and mass-mailings.

8. Keep important papers up to date and easy to locate. It’s especially important to keep track of insurance, medical documents, and wills, and to keep them current at all times. Make a list of all your passwords and bank account numbers too, and make sure your loved ones know where to find that list.

9. Use a calendar system to track family members’ schedules. Use ONE calendar that contains ALL your personal, family, and work commitments, so you can track and sync other people’s schedules with your own.

10. Organize and keep up with my reading. If you’ve got too little time to keep up with your reading, cut back on your commitments, and try listening to audio books. Even better, ditch the stuff that’s so dull it puts you to sleep.

It pays to spend a little time every day making your bill paying, filing, reading, tracking, and scheduling more manageable. If you don’t get control of the paper monster, it’ll get control of you. If that happens, you’re likely to find yourself drowning in a sea of paper — not exactly the most dignified way to go!

© 2008 Laura Stack.  Laura Stack is a personal productivity expert, professional speaker, and author who helps busy workers Leave the Office Earlier® with Maximum Results in Minimum Time™. She is the president of The Productivity Pro®, Inc., a time management training company in Denver, Colorado, that caters to high-stress industries. Laura’s newest productivity book, The Exhaustion Cure (Broadway Books), hits bookstores in May 2008.  Laura is a spokesperson for Microsoft, 3M, and Day-Timers®, Inc and has been featured on the CBS Early Show, CNN, and the New York Times. Her clients include Cisco, Sunoco, KPMG, Nationwide, and MolsonCoors.  Contact her at www.TheProductivityPro.com


Wednesday, March 26th, 2008

Who’s in Charge: You or Your “Stuff”?

Do you own your possessions, or do your possessions own you? It’s easy to get overwhelmed by all the stuff you’ve accumulated — everything from toys and clothing, to tools and all the stuff you regularly use that still counts as clutter. If you’re tired of all your stuff weighing you down, here are some ideas that may help you regain control.

1. Have a systematic plan to get and stay organized. The key to getting organized is FOCUS. Focus on getting one thing completed before moving to the next area. Act like a postage stamp: stick to one thing until you get there.

2. Eliminate clutter and resist adding more. Don’t let your belongings control you. For a start, get rid of unhappy reminders from the past, stop keeping old magazines and newspapers, and don’t buy things just because they’re on sale.

3. Keep your briefcase, tote, or purse organized and clutter-free. Don’t carry stuff around just because you might need it someday: all you’ll end up with is a cluttered mess and a backache. Carry only what you need on a daily basis, keep everything tucked into its own slot, and always put things back after using them.

4. Maintain clutter-free drawers and closets. Don’t just toss things in drawers and forget them. Make liberal use of file folders, trays, and dividers, and use baby food jars as handy paperclip holders and junk catchers. Closets should be subjected to a thorough cleaning at least twice a year.

5. Organize memorabilia such as photos and keepsakes. Before taking the time to organize an item, determine if it’s something you should be keeping in the first place. Don’t keep stuff that doesn’t have any specific meaning or use to you.

6. Keep kids’ toys, clothes, and books organized. Any family with children inevitably fights the battle of the messy monster. Having toys, clothes, and books around is inevitable, but clutter is not. Keep what’s used, and get rid of the rest.

7. Set up and maintain your kitchen in an organized fashion. We spend so much time in the kitchen putting groceries away, preparing meals, and doing dishes, it’s important to maintain an organized space. Be picky about what you keep, and always have frequently-used items close at hand.

8. Keep your car organized and clean. You don’t want to have a two-ton trashcan on wheels. Organize the clutter that stays in the car, and never let anyone get out empty-handed — make sure your trash leaves the car whenever you do. 

9. Set up an effective "office" space in your home. A home office isn’t a luxury these days; it’s just about a requirement. Offices can serve as the family computer center, a place to do paperwork, and the occasional work-at-home office.

10. Keep your house neat, and tidy up daily. Cleaning up doesn’t require anything fancy. Just make sure everything’s in or near when it should be, and regularly put things away so it’s easier to maintain a peaceful, productive frame of mind.

If owning too much is a problem for you, get serious about de-cluttering your life. Otherwise all the clutter will weigh you down, putting pressure on your other pillars of productivity. Start organizing and thinning out your possessions a little bit at a time, and eventually you’ll get there. You’ll be amazed at how good you feel, and how much easier life will be, when all the junk’s gone!

© 2008 Laura Stack.  Laura Stack is a personal productivity expert, professional speaker, and author who helps busy workers Leave the Office Earlier® with Maximum Results in Minimum Time™. She is the president of The Productivity Pro®, Inc., a time management training company in Denver, Colorado, that caters to high-stress industries. Laura’s newest productivity book, The Exhaustion Cure (Broadway Books), hits bookstores in May 2008.  Laura is a spokesperson for Microsoft, 3M, and Day-Timers®, Inc and has been featured on the CBS Early Show, CNN, and the New York Times. Her clients include Cisco, Sunoco, KPMG, Nationwide, and MolsonCoors.  Contact her at www.TheProductivityPro.com


Monday, March 24th, 2008

Time management is dead: The new reality of productivity

We’ve all been there. There’s mail piled up on the corner of your desk. You have 37 unread e-mails. The phone is ringing (not that phone – the other phone). And you’ll be lucky if you can get through three of the fifteen items on your to-do list.

Oh – and you have four hours of meetings ahead of you.

It didn’t used to be this way. The world has changed in the last decade or so. Has your approach to time management changed with it?

If you find yourself stressed out and frustrated every time you try to hunker down and take control of your time, there’s a good chance that’s because you need a new way to think about time management. Don’t fall into the trap of trying to force yourself to work within a system that just isn’t compatible with the pace of your day or the nature of your work. Just like electronic organizers are perfect for some and others swear by paper planners, even the best time management system will fail if it doesn’t jive with the way you get through each day.

If you’re looking for a productivity system that is compatible with real life, consider 4-A Time Management. By focusing on four key elements of productivity you can create a flexible, customized productivity strategy that is compatible with the fast paced demands of today.

Activity. When there are 117 things that could be done next, how are we supposed to prioritize? In this new era of productivity, it is pretty much impossible to successfully schedule your day in advance. You might set out a clear list of objectives and a bulletproof timetable, but we all know that one unexpected phone call can cause the whole plan to collapse in on itself – priorities change, a crisis pops up, a deadline is moved up a week; these things happen.

Since you can’t plan for everything, it is important that you have a crystal clear understanding of what your priorities are. If something happens that is beyond your control and these priorities need to be adjusted – fine – but until then, you should have a game plan.

Evaluate your to-do list to see which tasks will yield the greatest benefit. The old A-B-C method probably won’t work if the flow of your day changes often. You need a new method of deciding where to spend your valuable time.

Think about the average amount of time that you can work uninterrupted. Which of your tasks will benefit most from that undivided attention? Which require a lot more or much less? Make a plan to work on the bigger, more time-intensive projects when you know you’re least likely to be disturbed. Save the little ones for those windows between meetings and phone calls when you won’t get much else done.

If one of your important projects is just too intimidating for you to ever make any headway, break it down into smaller, manageable steps. I guarantee that nine times out of ten, once you get started you’ll forget why you put it off for so long to begin with.

Availability. The best laid plans won’t stand a chance if you don’t find a way to control your availability. Your time is your most valuable asset. Don’t just give it away to anyone who asks! You’ll never have complete control over your availability, but it’s important to know how to carve out blocks of distraction-free time that is conducive to productivity.

Meetings are notorious for eating up massive blocks of time. Learn to say “no.” It’s pretty likely that you don’t need to be at all of the meetings that you’re attending. Can you send someone in your place? Ask for the minutes to be forwarded? Address the situation with a quick phone call? Evaluate whether the meetings you attend are really necessary.

When you’re not in those meetings, schedule time to work. In some jobs this is easier to do than others. It might just be a matter of shutting your office door and setting your phone to voicemail. Or working from home or heading to Starbucks with your laptop. You might need a clear signal for your co-workers, like using a do-not-disturb sign or putting on head phones when you need to work uninterrupted.

Whatever your solution – don’t abuse it. If you try to make yourself constantly unavailable, you will quickly find that others lose respect for your “I’m busy” signal.

Then you’re right back where you started, whether you’re up against an important deadline or not.

Accessibility. You’ve already decided that you aren’t going to give everyone around constant access to your time. The next step is to make sure that you have easy access to the information, tools, and resources you need to be productive.

Invest the time necessary to make sure the things you need on a regular basis are at your fingertips. Things you access frequently should be filed on your desktop in an organizer or in a drawer that’s at arm’s reach. Put the files you only use occasionally where they are accessible at your desk, but give the easiest access to those things that you reference regularly. Archive files you rarely need in the bottom drawers or in files away from your desk.

Perhaps the most important and overlooked thing you can do to get organized is to structure your electronic files. In an age where most files are electronic, it’s easy to lose them to the vacuum of cyber storage. File electronic documents similar to the way you would paper ones. Don’t just plop everything in “My Documents” or on your desktop and leave it for lost. Set up folders and sub folders that have intuitive titles that you’ll easily navigate. Use dates and enough detail in file names that you won’t have to open multiple documents when you’re looking for something specific. In short, do the initial work of saving the files in an organized manner to make referencing them an easy task.

Stopping to hunt for what you need not only wastes time, but it destroys your rhythm and forces you to break your concentration. It’s well worth it to organize as you go.

Attention. The most effective time management system in the world won’t do a thing to improve your productivity if you don’t focus on the task at hand. For many of us, the problem isn’t a lack of willpower; it’s having the restraint to refuse distractions.

This means closing Outlook when you’re not working on e-mail and trying to check it only a few times a day. Resist the urge to open messages as they come in. This also means letting the voicemail light stay on until you’ve finished what you’re doing. Treat your project time like an appointment with a coworker. Ignore the phone, the e-mail, and the urge to go get a cup of coffee.

Of course, avoiding email and the phone might be much easier than avoiding the distractions that come from coworkers. If you’ve already put your “do not disturb” signal in place, be it headphones or a closed office door, and you’re still being interrupted, it’s time to tactfully redirect the person distracting you.

Acknowledge the issue and let them know you’re in the thick of an important project. Ask if you may give them a call in an hour when they may have your undivided attention.

Just remember – it’s better to be like a postage stamp and stick with something all the way to the end than it is to be a butterfly that flits from task to task!

So forget managing your time – it can’t be managed. Manage yourself with these 4 A’s and you’ll increase the likelihood you’ll have a productive day.

Make it a productive day!

www.TheProductivityPro.com


Friday, March 21st, 2008

Beat the Bandits that Rob Your Time

Pests are the time-wasters and robbers that keep you from being able to accomplish your goals, the "termites" that eat away at your personal foundations. Getting rid of them may seem difficult at first, but it’s amazing how good we are at eliminating time-wasters when forced to. Try these pointers and see what you can accomplish.

1. Confront problems head-on and make decisions quickly. Indecisiveness is a big time-waster and a major pest in your quest to be productive. The ability to make quick decisions is the hallmark of a good leader and efficient person.

2. Complete the tasks you start. Don’t let projects stall; make a running list keeping track of them so you know what’s due next, and break them down into smaller pieces to get them done easier.

3. Keep interruptions from wasting your time. Tame the telephone, and if you need to, go into hiding to get things done. If you work at home, explain to your friends and family what you do, and ask them to limit the interruptions.

4. Create shortcuts to get things done quickly. Find ways to streamline and simplify your life. Even little things like keeping an on-going shopping list, taking kitchen shortcuts, and catching up on news online instead of reading the paper can shave valuable minutes off your daily routine.

5. Combine activities and routines. Get work done while accomplishing other necessary tasks. For example, you can catch up on phone calls while folding laundry, or combine exercise with family time by going on family walks.

6. Make good use of down time. If you’re waiting for something to happen, don’t just twiddle your thumbs: try to complete a little task. Pay a bill, knit, tidy up the car, make dinner reservations — whatever occurs to you.

7. Turn off the technology. You don’t have to be electronically available 24/7. For the sake of your own sanity, unplug during your down time, and be fully present in whatever you’re doing, especially if you’re with loved ones.

8. Know and avoid your biggest timewasters and distractions. Identify your favorite pests, whether they’re television, computer games, or talking on the phone too much, and get a handle on them. You don’t have to cut them out completely, but set some rules on how often you’ll indulge.

9. Make productive use of driving or commuting time. Get some work done while commuting, especially if you’re a passenger. If you’re driving, you can still make phone calls (with a hands-free setup, of course!), use a voice recorder, or listen to books on tape.

10. Eliminate aggravation and save time when traveling or flying. Take steps to make travel as pleasant an experience as possible. Simplify your packing regime, arrive early, and take advantage of options like driving services that, while expensive, are worthwhile in the long run.

Don’t be so controlled by daily events that your productivity goes into the toilet. Learn to eliminate the obstacles in your path, all the wasted pieces of time that fritter away your day. I guarantee that you’ll be amazed and invigorated by what you’re able to accomplish.

© 2008 Laura Stack.  Laura Stack is a personal productivity expert, professional speaker, and author who helps busy workers Leave the Office Earlier® with Maximum Results in Minimum Time™. She is the president of The Productivity Pro®, Inc., a time management training company in Denver, Colorado, that caters to high-stress industries. Laura’s newest productivity book, The Exhaustion Cure (Broadway Books), hits bookstores in May 2008.  Laura is a spokesperson for Microsoft, 3M, and Day-Timers®, Inc and has been featured on the CBS Early Show, CNN, and the New York Times. Her clients include Cisco, Sunoco, KPMG, Nationwide, and MolsonCoors.  Contact her at www.TheProductivityPro.com


Tuesday, March 18th, 2008

Your Personal Productivity Personality and Self-Sabotage

Have you ever considered that your biggest obstacle to finding more time might be YOU? The way you react to the world may be the reason you stay overwhelmed. To fix this you need to look at your behavior, habits, and choices, and then figure out which ones to adjust in order to support your desired direction in life. Here are a few tips that can help you do just that.

1. Control perfectionism. Realize that some things are good enough as they are. Instead of worrying about making things perfect, learn to leave well enough alone. Obsessing over small details can be deadly to your productivity.

2. Refuse requests when appropriate. You don’t have to say "yes" to everything, whether that involves accepting extra work or baking brownies for a kid’s party. Set boundaries about what you’ll accept, and learn to say no to yourself, too.

3. Ask for help you need it. You’re not a superhero; you can’t do everything alone.  Surround yourself with a team of helpers, and don’t be afraid to delegate things that other people can do.

4. Avoid procrastinating. You know what you should be doing, so get out there and do it. If you put it off until tomorrow, you’ll just end up working harder at the last minute — and both your energy and quality of work will suffer.

5. Know and honor your energy levels throughout the day. Nobody has an unlimited supply of energy, so you’ll have to learn how your personal energy levels ebb and flow in order to get through the day effectively.

6. Communicate clearly to avoid confusion and rework. Good interpersonal communication will help you reduce unnecessary problems and wasted time. Share information, state your expectations up front, and be specific.

7. Consistently meet and usually beat deadlines. If you get things done on time — or preferably early — you’ll save yourself unnecessary stress, and your work will generally be of higher quality than if you waited until the last minute.

8. Focus on completing one task before getting distracted by another. When you turn your full attention to a task, your output is increased, you perform better, less rework is required, and your peace of mind is enhanced.

9. Maintain a positive attitude. Accept the responsibility for your own stress levels. While you can’t control everything, you can look for the good in every experience, and learn to avoid "stinking thinking" in all its many forms.

10. Stop trying to please all the people all of the time. Stop caring so much about what other people think. Being a people-pleaser is a debilitating pattern of behavior that can cause stress and ruin the productive pursuit of your own goals. As singer Ricky Nelson once pointed out, "You can’t please everyone, so you have to please yourself."

So take charge of your life. Learn to focus, stop beating around the bush, and don’t be too proud to ask for and accept help if you need it. Most of all, kick the guilt habit. Guilt is a junk emotion that keeps you from unlocking your true potential. Stop "shoulding" on yourself, and get on with your life! 

© 2008 Laura Stack.  Laura Stack is a personal productivity expert, professional speaker, and author who helps busy workers Leave the Office Earlier® with Maximum Results in Minimum Time™. She is the president of The Productivity Pro®, Inc., a time management training company in Denver, Colorado, that caters to high-stress industries. Laura’s newest productivity book, The Exhaustion Cure (Broadway Books), hits bookstores in May 2008.  Laura is a spokesperson for Microsoft, 3M, and Day-Timers®, Inc and has been featured on the CBS Early Show, CNN, and the New York Times. Her clients include Cisco, Sunoco, KPMG, Nationwide, and MolsonCoors.  Contact her at www.TheProductivityPro.com


Monday, March 17th, 2008

The Top 100 Productivity and Lifehack Blogs

"Having a little trouble getting motivated? From work responsibilities to personal calendars and endless to-do lists, we can all find ourselves stretched in too many directions. To give you a little boost, we’ve generated a list of the top 100 productivity and lifehack blogs. Here they are, arranged by category, but in no particular order."


Thursday, March 13th, 2008

When The “Why” is Important Enough, the “How” is Easier

Have you ever wanted to scream, "Stop the world, I want to get off!"? If you feel that way, maybe you should — because if you’re racing to nowhere, you definitely need to step back and take a look at your priorities. Without the why in your life, the how becomes harder and harder. The solution is to determine where you want to spend your time in support of your plans.

What are you committed to changing in your life? These tips can help you decide.

1. Spend enough time with the people who are dear to you. Never take your loved ones for granted, because they may not be here tomorrow. Make time for them when none exists, and treasure every minute.

2. Volunteer in a way that feeds your spirit and makes a lasting contribution. Volunteering shouldn’t feel like work; it can be hard, but it should still be enjoyable. If what you’re doing isn’t, try something else.

3. Eliminate time-zapping addictions from your life. Stop watching so much TV, surfing the ‘Net, and playing video games all the time, and you’ll wonder where the heck all that extra time came from.

4. Limit your children’s activities to manageable levels. If you’re rushing from ballet class to soccer practice to piano lessons and can’t get a breath in edgewise, something’s wrong. Don’t overschedule your children; let them be kids.

5. Make your health a top priority. If you aren’t in good health, you won’t be able to do much — and your ability to help others will decline. Keep up with doctor and dentist appointments, stay hydrated, and stop smoking.

6. Exercise consistently. As few as 15 minutes of exercise a day can greatly improve your health and quality of life. It’s a cheap way to stay healthy, and it’s easier than you think if you do things you love.

7. Enjoy the way you spend most of your day. You can’t expect to be ecstatic about everything you have to do, but you should enjoy the majority of your time. Otherwise, life can seem empty and hollow — and what’s the point of that?

8. Practice healthy eating habits. Poor eating habits not only make you fat, they steal your precious energy. How can you use the time you have if you can’t get off the couch?

9. Get enough sleep. Sleeping well isn’t a luxury: it’s a necessity. Sacrificing sleep for any reason is counterproductive.

10. Make time to feed your intellect and continue your learning. All humans share the need to learn and grow.  If you want your brain to continue to serve you into your old age, you must keep it active. Be curious. Wonder. Stretch. Grow.

Moving fast without clear priorities can take a heavy toll on your career, your family, and your health. Learn to tune out all the background noise in your life and focus on what matters most, and you’ll find that the how becomes easier. Stop worrying about the quantity of work you’re producing, and focus instead on the quality of time you spend on it — and on the people who matter to you the most.

Contrary to popular belief, productivity is not about speed — and achievement is not about money.

© 2008 Laura Stack.  Laura Stack is a personal productivity expert, professional speaker, and author who helps busy workers Leave the Office Earlier® with Maximum Results in Minimum Time™. She is the president of The Productivity Pro®, Inc., a time management training company in Denver, Colorado, that caters to high-stress industries. Laura’s newest productivity book, The Exhaustion Cure (Broadway Books), hits bookstores in May 2008.  Laura is a spokesperson for Microsoft, 3M, and Day-Timers®, Inc and has been featured on the CBS Early Show, CNN, and the New York Times. Her clients include Cisco, Sunoco, KPMG, Nationwide, and MolsonCoors.  Contact her at www.TheProductivityPro.com


Monday, March 10th, 2008

Do Your Daily Activities Contribute to the Plan for Your Life?

Without a plan, life just sort of happens to you. But with a plan, you’ll make sure your daily activities support what you want to create next week, next month, next year…until, at the end of your days, your activities have contributed to creating and living a successful life. Your plans should be purposeful, so your life moves in the direction you desire, based on your ideal vision for yourself. These tips can help you get there.

1. Have a personal mission statement for your life. You need an essential, written document that helps you make decisions about the way you spend your time and evaluate your choices. This is who you are, and what you’re all about.

2. Maintain a list of your life’s goals and dreams. Take each dream and phrase it in the form of an objective statement — and then make plans for its accomplishment, sooner rather than later.

3. Try to gain flexibility at work. Determine how the business of life and the game of work are going to fit together. Strive to create a lifestyle that’s flexible, one in which your personal life works with your job and your job works with your life.

4. Keep effective to-do lists. Set everything down on paper (or on your computer screen) so things don’t slip through the cracks.

5. Break larger projects into smaller ones. Big projects tend to get thrown over in favor of the little ones that are quickly done. To avoid leaving something on your list for months, break it into single steps that are easily accomplished.

6. Prepare for the next day the night before. It’s easier to put together a plan early on and then execute it when the time comes, rather than create it from scratch right when you need it.

7. Plan for chaotic transitional periods during the day. Expect transitional times (such as from workday to evening) to take a little more effort than you expect. You can control the confusion, however, if you have a checklist to follow.

8. Prevent crises by preparing well in advance. You can’t plan for everything, but there’s a difference between a true emergency and a "crisis" created because you didn’t do something before it was due. You’ll be amazed at the level of calm you experience when you get things done before you need them.

9. Embrace flexibility and weather change. Things will change — get used to it. There’s no going back to the "good old days." In a storm, it’s the trees than can bend who survive; the stiff ones break. Whatever you face, this too shall pass.

10. Continuously work to improve your efficiency and effectiveness. Don’t expect to regain control of your time all at once! It takes effort and practice to get it right. The secret is to take it inch by inch, step by step. 

The lesson here is to approach your life with a sense of structure. While you’ll never be able to plan for everything, you should have systems on hand to help you create order from chaos when it occurs. You should also have a clear plan for your life’s goals and dreams, so you’ll be able to work toward them and accomplish them sooner.  When you plan, you wake up each day with your marching orders. All you have to do is march!

© 2008 Laura Stack.  Laura Stack is a personal productivity expert, professional speaker, and author who helps busy workers Leave the Office Earlier® with Maximum Results in Minimum Time™. She is the president of The Productivity Pro®, Inc., a time management training company in Denver, Colorado, that caters to high-stress industries. Laura’s newest productivity book, The Exhaustion Cure (Broadway Books), hits bookstores in May 2008.  Laura is a spokesperson for Microsoft, 3M, and Day-Timers®, Inc and has been featured on the CBS Early Show, CNN, and the New York Times. Her clients include Cisco, Sunoco, KPMG, Nationwide, and MolsonCoors.  Contact her at www.TheProductivityPro.com


Tuesday, March 4th, 2008

Do You Work to Live or Live to Work?

Workplace balance is tough to achieve, because most employees have a real commitment to both their jobs and to their families. They love their work lives and their personal lives, often with equal vigor, and don’t want to give up either. But many professionals find it difficult to participate fully in one area without sacrificing the other.  If you have trouble with your personal/professional equilibrium, then these ten tips are for you.

1. Allocate time according to your values and the top priorities in your life. Assess whether you’re spending your time in ways consistent with what’s important to you. Other people should be able to look at your life, observe what you do, and tell what you value.

2. Achieve your ideal life balance. This is one place in life where you shouldn’t accept "close enough." If tomorrow were D-day, what would you regret not having done? What fulfils you emotionally, psychologically, physically?

3. Set appropriate boundaries and stick to your guns. Learning to set boundaries is critical if you want to increase your personal productivity. Setting limits is a way of defining who you are and what you’re all about; what you will do and what you won’t; what’s acceptable to you and what’s not.

4. Stop thinking about work at the end of the day and enjoy your personal time. Do your best to get everything done by the end of the day, but if you can’t, draw a line in the sand. Don’t apologize for making a clear distinction between work and personal time.

5. Ask for help when you need it. You can’t do it all. Surround yourself with a good team, so you can draw upon their resources when you encounter trouble.

6. Create rituals and fond memories with your family. Connect with those you love during family trips and events, and use those experiences to reconnect during stressful times. Remember: quality time trumps quantity.

7. Spend appropriate amounts of time with electronic pursuits. Don’t go overboard watching television, playing video games, or surfing the Internet, especially when you’ve got a family to enjoy. Set yourself some reasonable limits.

8. Turn off the technology when you’re with family or on personal time. Instead of letting laptops, PDAs, pagers, and phones take over your life, turn them off and be fully present when you need to be.

9. Take full advantage of company wellness and family balance programs.  You’ll be more productive when you don’t have to worry about the health of your family, which is exactly why most companies offer these programs.

10. Consistently leave work on time. Commit to getting out the door on time. Ignore informal rules that make no sense, start meetings well before quitting time, and be assertive about your need to leave at a reasonable hour. Start small if necessary.

You can’t devote 100% of your energy to your job, no matter how much you try — or how much your boss would like you to. To be a complete, well-rounded human being, you need to focus some of your attention on other things that are important to you: your family, your religion, your hobbies, and especially your core values. Otherwise one of these days you’re likely to look up and wonder who you are, and how you got there — and why it’s so lonely.

© 2008 Laura Stack.  Laura Stack is a personal productivity expert, professional speaker, and author who helps busy workers Leave the Office Earlier® with Maximum Results in Minimum Time™. She is the president of The Productivity Pro®, Inc., a time management training company in Denver, Colorado, that caters to high-stress industries. Laura’s newest productivity book, The Exhaustion Cure (Broadway Books), hits bookstores in May 2008.  Laura is a spokesperson for Microsoft, 3M, and Day-Timers®, Inc and has been featured on the CBS Early Show, CNN, and the New York Times. Her clients include Cisco, Sunoco, KPMG, Nationwide, and MolsonCoors.  Contact her at www.TheProductivityPro.com